Stop Performing. Start Leading.

You've achieved success by being perfect, pleasing everyone, and working twice as hard to prove you belong.

But the exhaustion is real and the self-doubt never quite goes away.

Apply to work with Cassandra

You lead, achieve, and give—often at your own expense.

What if imposter syndrome and people-pleasing weren't mindset issues to "manage"—but nervous system patterns you could actually rewire?

I help women in leadership who are done performing, perfecting, and people-pleasing rewire those patterns using somatic EMDR-informed coaching to rise into calm confidence and self-trust that lasts.

You're Not Broken. Your Nervous System Is Just Running Old Programming.

You know the pattern:

  • Second-guessing decisions you're more than qualified to make
  • Overworking to prove you deserve your seat at the table
  • Saying yes when you want to say no (and resenting yourself later)
  • Scrolling, snacking, or staying busy to avoid the discomfort of slowing down
  • Feeling like an imposter even with a resume full of accomplishments

You've tried affirmations. Journaling. Traditional coaching. Therapy. And still—the same thoughts creep back in.

Because you can't think your way out of a nervous system problem.

Rewire the Pattern. Not Just Reframe It.

Most coaching asks you to "reframe" your thinking. But limiting beliefs aren't just thoughts—they're encoded in your body, running automatically beneath your awareness.

That's why somatic EMDR-informed coaching works differently.

Instead of talking about your patterns, we rewire them at the nervous system level—where imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and people-pleasing actually live.

The result?


Change that doesn't require constant maintenance. Self-trust that doesn't fade when things get hard. Leadership that feels grounded, not forced.

How to work with Cassandra

Join the Nervous System Leadership Lab

A free community for high-performing women who are done performing, perfecting, and people-pleasing their way through leadership.

Inside the Lab, you'll discover the neuroscience behind imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and self-doubt—and learn how to actually rewire those patterns at the nervous system level.

What's included (free): Weekly 10-minute video trainings, monthly live coaching, simple somatic practices you can use immediately, and a community of women leaders doing the real work.

Ready to go deeper?

Upgrade to Course Member ($47/month) for self-paced access to the full Present Leader Method™ course, or Coaching Member ($197/month) to add live group coaching calls and deeper support.

The Present Leader Method™ Course

30-day nervous system protocol designed specifically for women leaders.

Through daily 15-20 minute video lessons and EMDR-informed practices, you'll move beyond surface-level confidence tips to rewire the root patterns—perfectionism, people-pleasing, imposter syndrome—that keep you overworking, over-preparing, and playing small.

In this program, you'll:

  • Identify the nervous system patterns driving your perfectionism, people-pleasing, and imposter syndrome
  • Trace these patterns to their origins and rewire them using EMDR-informed bilateral stimulation practices
  • Build real-time regulation skills for high-stakes meetings, difficult conversations, and conflict
  • Create sustainable energy rhythms that prevent burnout without sacrificing impact
  • Design your personalized leadership operating system—morning activation, pre-moment protocols, and recovery practices
  • Develop the capacity to say no, delegate, and take up space without guilt or anxiety
  • Lead from presence and internal authority rather than anxiety and external validation

The program includes six bonus modules with quick regulation tools, scenario-specific guides, and progress tracking assessments.

The Embodied Sovereign Immersion™ Private Coaching

3-Month High-touch Hybrid (Small Group + 1:1)

  • Biweekly 75-min group sessions (virtual)
  • Two 4-hour somatic EMDR-informed intensives (month 1 + 3)
  • Voxer support, personalized reset library, & integration plans
  • Access to my Present Leader Method course for guidance along the way
  • Community and sisterhood in the Nervous System Lab on Skool
  • Investment: Founding Member rate for the first 4 women $3500

Book Cassandra to Speak

"The Body Keeps the Belief: You Can't Think Your Way Out of Burnout"

Your leaders have tried mindset work. They're still exhausted.

Cassandra delivers a science-backed keynote that reveals why confidence isn't just a thought problem—it's a nervous system problem. Your audience will learn the hidden driver behind imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and burnout, plus somatic tools they can use immediately.

Perfect for: Women's leadership conferences, corporate wellness events, HR teams, and organizations ready to move beyond surface-level empowerment talks.

I’m Cassandra Quick
LPC, NCC, EMDR-C, RYT-200

is a Somatic EMDR Informed Coach, speaker, best-selling author, creator of the Embodied Rise Method™ and founder of the Embodied Rise Institute. She helps women who lead, achieve, and give trade high-functioning stress for durable steadiness—through nervous-system–first coaching that blends somatic micro-practices, trauma-informed principles, mindfulness, EFT tapping, and trauma-conscious yoga to illuminate the unique healing path for you, repattern negative core beliefs through EMDR coaching and rise into a confident, self-compassionate new version of you.

Let's Work Together

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

I've got A's for your Q's

What’s the difference between therapy and coaching?

Short version: therapy treats and diagnoses mental health conditions; coaching builds skills and creates change without medical treatment.

  • Therapy (my separate practice): For WI/OH residents only. Clinical EMDR is offered only in therapy with appropriate jurisdictions and documentation, diagnosis, treatment plans, clinical records. May address PTSD, anxiety, depression, etc.
  • Coaching (this offer): Available globally. EMDR-informed coaching uses bilateral stimulation and resourcing adapted for a coaching container for belief + behavior change, nervous-system skills, leadership and life patterns. No diagnosis, no clinical records, not medical or mental health treatment.
    If we discover you’d be better served by therapy, I’ll recommend that lane and share next steps.
     

Can my results last?

This is what makes EMDR so powerful. When we resolve negative core beliefs...they don't "come back". When the body updates the belief, behavior follows. Integration is built in so changes become your new normal.

Do you take insurance or HSAs/FSAs?

Coaching is private pay and not insurance-eligible. Some HSAs/FSAs reimburse coaching; check your plan. I’ll provide simple receipts (not superbills).

Who is this not for?

Active crisis, unmanaged substance dependence, current domestic violence without safety planning, or severe dissociation without clinical support. In those cases, therapy (or higher level care) comes first. If you’re in crisis, contact local emergency services or the 988 Lifeline.

Where do sessions happen?

Secure video worldwide for coaching. In-person VIP days available by request (limited).

What about confidentiality?

I treat your information with care. Coaching isn’t governed by HIPAA, but I keep your data private and secure and won’t share it without your consent—except where required by law (e.g., risk of harm).

What’s your availability and waitlist?

Private coaching and Hybrid Immersion opens as space is available. So, some women may be in week 2, while others are in month 2 on group calls. If spots are full, you can join the waitlist after your clarity call.

Refunds and cancellations?

Because I reserve your slot and create custom plans, coaching payments are generally non-refundable. You may reschedule with at least 48 hours’ notice; details are in your agreement.

What happens in a consultation call?

Name what you want different in the next 30–90 days, and make sure you’re in the right lane. If you need therapy, I’ll say so and share next steps/referrals. If coaching fits, we’ll choose a starting target and outline simple next steps. No pressure, no jargon—just a clear read on fit and what working together would look like. Calls are private and you can reschedule with 24-hour notice.

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Cassandra is passionate about helping women heal. Her style is warm and inviting and she often uses examples from her own life in order for individuals to feel understood. She's amazing!

Dr. Amy Sosa

Ready to rewire at the root?

Somatic EMDR-informed coaching to rebuild worth, confidence, and self-compassion without burnout.